Why dreaming with your spouse changes everything

For the past 5 years, Brian and I have been hosting couples in our home to help them dream together, heal together, and grow together. It has been one of the most rewarding things we’ve ever done.

The more couples that have come through one of our dream retreats, the more we can see the power of dreaming with your spouse. We’ve watched dreaming drastically change marriages, careers, and family legacies.

Hosting and creating space for people to come dream is our greatest passion, and one of our combined dreams. Since we recently downsized big time to chase that dream of creating space for people, we ironically don’t have space right now.

It’s driving us both nutty not being able to do the thing we feel so called to do. So on Brian and I’s last dreaming trip we decided to do some brainstorming.

How could we continue to host retreats in the messy middle of prepping our 50 acres for the retreat lodge and our forever home one day?

We were on a beach in Mexico at our favorite resort doing some dreaming, and it hit us. Why not here?

Why not bring couples to our very favorite place (aside from A Million Dreams Ranch of course) and create space for them here to grow, dream, and walk away with a better vision for their future?

WHY NOT?

So we’re doing it. We’re hosting our first ever Dream Marriage Retreat in Mexico! (cue the mariachi) This how excited we are….actually this is how happy we are in Mexico!

Who is this retreat for?

Married couples of any age who have been married for any amount of time. This event is not for engaged couples.

What content do you cover?

We use a variety of content that we’re updating constantly as we learn more about the beautiful covenant of marriage.

Sessions include:

• our infamous dream session (don’t worry if you’re not a dreamer, we can help!)
• Love + Respect (the Biblical principles behind marriage)
• Enneagram for couples
• Family Values + Mission Statements
• At Home Rhythms + Schedules
• Communication + Conflict Resolution
• Love Languages
• A planning session to help you head home and begin chasing your new or re-discovered dreams.

What qualifies you to help other couples in their marriages?

We asked the Lord the same question when He called us to encourage others in their marriages. We are not therapists or counselors.

We have been married for almost 18 years and together for almost 20, but more importantly than that, we have spent the past decade working together from home (which we kind of think deserves a medal.) So we spend a lot of time together. We’ve also had 4 biological babes, 3 foster babes, built a million dollar business, worked in full time ministry, and chased our own dreams in the middle of all of it.

Our marriage hasn’t always been great, but once we learned the tools to make our marriage great the majority of the time, we wanted to share them with every couple we knew.

So the deets:

Join us for a 5-night all-inclusive stay in sunny Mexico at a luxury spa and all-inclusive resort. 

We’ll mix marriage work, dreaming, and leisure together for a life-changing experience. 

We use our time together to uncover the dreams you have as individuals and as a couple as well as give you practical tools to fight fair, move forward, and live your married life with purpose and vision.

You’ll walk away with a better understanding of yourself and your spouse, big dreams for you to chase as a couple, a clear vision for your future and a plan to tackle it all as well as a family mission statement and core values, better rhythms for your home, and so much more. 

Price includes:

• 5 night all-inclusive stay at an all-inclusive resort and spa in Cancun
• All meals 
• all beverages (alcoholic and non-alcoholic) 
• all training materials for the event 
• 3 days of marriage and dreaming work mixed with leisure 
• 1 full leisure day 
• Free mani-pedi 
• 2- 25 minute massages 
• Transportation to and from the Cancun airport
• Resort credits 
• 1-hour Strategy session with each couple via zoom upon returning to the U.S.

Not included: flight to Cancun 

FAQs:

• How much time will we spend with other couples?
  • We will spend part of the 3 days of content together with the other couples in attendance over meals and content caring, but this is not a group project. All of the work you’ll do will be done with just you and your spouse.
• What happens if something comes up and we can’t go?
  • Your stay is non-refundable, but if something happens and you can’t attend the retreat, you can move your 5 night stay to any other 5 nights in the next year.
• Do I need to be vaccinated to travel to Mexico?
  • No. You do not have to be vaccinated to travel to Mexico.
• Do I need a passport to travel to Mexico?
  • Yes. You must have a valid U.S. passport that doesn’t expire within 6 months of our travel dates.

Ready to go dream with us? Pricing, details, and registration are all right here.